Konnection: A Space for Deeper Thoughts
An exploration blog.
Friday, July 31, 2020
Life Begets Life, and Other Potential Workings of the Universe
Saturday, October 17, 2015
The Objectivist's Bigger Picture of Life: Transference
In my last blog, I listed some subjective meanings for life and then disclosed that they may not be the whole picture, only a part of it. Sunday, April 12, 2015
Subjective vs. Objective Meaning: Does Your Sun Rise or Does Your Earth Revolve?
- To enjoy it/pleasure.
- To suffer.
- To overcome suffering - and reach Nothingness/Oneness.
- To surrender and obey - to be a cog in a wheel - to do your duty.
- To live in harmony with the world/nature.
- To care for the environment.
- To fulfill the will or plan of a higher power.
- To achieve the highest good in an ethical way while also achieving personal fulfillment.
- To live with dignity in the face of absurdity.
- To embrace the eternal becoming.
- To learn.
- To become a god.
- To develop/to reach our potential.
- To remember.
- To reconcile past deeds.
- To make an impact/to create change (in others, in the world around us, - similar to develop).
- To create (includes procreation).
- To survive.
- There is no meaning.
- 42.
Wednesday, November 5, 2014
4 Reasons We Would Destroy Our Home (Part 2)
V: "That's the most beautiful thing you could have ever given me."
This quote from the movie, V for Vendetta, tells us one very powerful message - that to value and care about another's life as much as your own so much that you do not want them to die is a very special thing. It is a very important part of life.
#3 - We Don't Feel Connected to Each Other
One of the four reasons I mentioned that we destroy our home is that we don't feel connected to it. We don't always feel connected to people who aren't in our immediate environment and social circle. So what we need to realize is that we all inhabit the same home, and we are all stewards of the land we walk on and should all respect the company we keep.
We need to feel that caring connection to others if we are going to protect them all. We cannot prevent all catastrophes and death from occurring - we are mortals, after all. However, we can do our best to keep people alive out of love. To allow them to live long and full lives.
We do this naturally with infants. Every woman feels connected to her child, has a bond that keeps her up at night sometimes, ensuring their safety. And throughout their lives, we feel this connection to the people closest to us.
But what I think V for Vendetta seeks to tell us is that we need to extend this love and compassion to all of humanity. Destructive actions that exclude others for their differences in their sexuality, or their race, or their religion, or their method of healing - all things that make us unique, but are also personal choices or things you cannot necessarily change about yourself - are what is killing this world's social peace and destroying us.
Monstrous actions create monsters, as the movie so aptly points out with V's vengeance. He does not feel connected to those who have harmed him and the others, and therefore sought a method of justice that was violent. But as we discussed in Part 1 of this post, vengeance only leads to more vengeance. People hold grudges.
What we need is forgiveness and to feel more connected to our enemies. We need to take away the masks that we all carry - the labels we use to identify each other - and look into everyone's eyes. We need to see that we are all together on this planet and share a single home.
So tonight, on the 5th of November, let's remember that violence and oppression are NOT the answer, but rather that love and acceptance of others is the way to a better world.
#4 - The Afterlife is Not Guaranteed, But We Think It Is Better
There are several accounts about the afterlife that we are told to believe in. However, none of them, no matter what you believe, should enable you to harm another person in this life.
You shouldn't say hateful things to or about people who believe something different. You shouldn't use your beliefs as a justification of your own destructive actions.
And indeed, there are many belief systems that tell there are negative consequences to such behavior. Whether or not those consequences happen in an afterlife - we cannot be certain, however many of those consequences do happen in the material world, and they affect others - as well as the environment - in the present and future.
Life is sacred, and we should all have the right to live in it. We should not use our beliefs to harm others, or to deny them this gift of life.
We need to be aware of the consequences that our actions can have, not just on us, but on others. We need forward-thinking to really have a connection to not only everyone in the world as I mentioned in #3, but we need to think about those who are not yet born as well.
There's no guarantee of an afterlife, but what is more certain is a future of this world. Our decisions and behaviors today affect that future. And if we care about our children, we should care about our children's children, and everyone else's children's children who will be affecting our children's children.
So first, in order to take on the task of protecting our home, we need to ask ourselves if we believe that this material world has a purpose and a meaning.
Is the material aspect of life on Earth a necessary stepping stone to the afterlife? What, really, are we doing by living on Earth as humans?
In my next post, I'd like to explore this idea more in detail. We can start a discussion about all of the different reasons for living.
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Can you think of any other reasons why we would destroy our homes and the people who inhabit this planet? Are there more ways to prevent destructive behavior than those that I've mentioned so far? Let me know your thoughts in the comments!
You can also tweet your comments or thoughts to @RMKBrainFeed.
Until next time...
Thanks for Konnecting with me!
And have a happy Guy Fawkes Day!
Friday, October 31, 2014
4 Reasons We Would Destroy Our Home
- They think it hurt them and they are trying to make others feel the pain they feel (or empathize with their pain)? (Think about vengeance as an emotional reaction to pain).
Wednesday, October 1, 2014
Konnected to Our Home
"Nie mój cyrk, nie moje małpy."
(Not my circus, not my monkey).
-- Polish Proverb
Do people care about what's not on their doorstep? If someone doesn't have direct experience with an issue, how can it still be important to him or her?
Today, I'd like to explore this topic: Priorities.
Throughout our lives, we are given only so much time to do all the things we need or want to do, and only so much time to think about all the things we need and want to think about.
With that limited amount of time, we make choices based on what we think is most important. And a lot of the time, what we think is most important is what's right in front of our face, affecting us directly.
However, that perspective can often leave us making selfish choices. And sometimes you need to be selfish (we all need to take care of ourselves). Yet, since most of us live in some kind of civilization or social group - we need to keep in mind that there should be a balance between thinking about the self and thinking about others, right?
We never start our lives without some kind of dependence on others. Every baby must rely on its parent for milk. This interaction often creates a bond, making family important out of necessity.
But then we grow older, we wean off of our mother's milk, and gain some more freedom of choice. However, with those choices come limitations and more dependency.
Everything you nourish your body with comes from the earth. You become dependent on the availability of fresh water and the abundance of food that you can forage, grow, or buy.
And here's where my philosophy comes in: We are connected to our home.
And because of that connection, I think caring for our home should be a priority. Without Earth, without the environment that's been so carefully created (either by physics or a higher power or something we haven't considered yet), we couldn’t possibly be here.
By acknowledging that we are connected to our home, we expand our priorities. We must now care about the land, the animals that inhabit that land, the entire system and how we affect it.
And since we are conscious animals, capable of making educated choices - do you think we have a responsibility to our home to protect it? Do you think that because we also have the potential to destroy our entire planet, we should be mindful always about our impact?
Consciousness and the ability to change our environment according to our needs and wants is a gift, however it's a gift to be exercised with caution.
In some respects, we are the guardians of our home. It's why we establish global politics in the first place, really - it's not only to protect our nationalist agendas, but also to keep our home safe. Nuclear weapons shifted our priorities. It provided a real threat to our home as a whole, and because of that - we need protectors. We need people who care enough about our home to stand up to those who would destroy it.
But why would someone destroy their home? Let's talk about that in the next post.
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For now, leave a comment below if you have any thoughts on the priorities I've discussed here so far (the self, our families, our home planet).
You can also follow me on Twitter at @RMKBrainFeed.
Thanks for Konnecting with me! :-)
Introduction
And I cannot learn them all on my own. I need your help and your input. I seek new perspectives and new understanding.
This blog is designed for discussion about the many wonders of life and finding our place in it. The range will cover many topics - from mathematics, to music, to philosophy, to religion, to language development and learning, to social and cultural issues, to psychology, to technology, and more.
I am not here to judge or to persuade you to any particular kind of thinking. I am here purely for exploration. And I hope you'll explore with me.
- R. M. Kon


